The place to apologize for doing something IC preemptively or post-mortem. Even if it manages to annoy someone on OOC level.
I apologize for being an ass on Ebon Mournsoul. Because he's an ass
. I'd like to think I'm not an ass in real life. But that won't stop me from trying to be an obnoxious racist, sexist hypocrite in character. Because that's what my character is.